The Ultimate Wedding Catering Guide
Everything You Need to Know before choosing your wedding caterer.
Planning your wedding is exciting, but with so many decisions to make, choosing the right caterer can feel overwhelming.
We've created this guide to answer the questions couples ask us every week and to help you feel confident throughout the planning process.
Whether you're deciding between banquet or plated dining, wondering how dietary requirements work, or trying to understand what great catering actually looks like, you'll find it here.
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Why trust this guide?
Written by Executive Chef Cooper Thomas, founder of The Wilderness Chef.
Over the past nine years our team has:
• Catered more than 250 weddings every year
• Cooked for thousands of guests
• Worked at many of the Hunter Valley, Newcastle, Sydney and Central Coast's leading wedding venues
• Built one of the regions highest-rated wedding catering businesses with 250+ five-star Google reviews
Everything you'll read comes from real weddings, real couples and real experience.
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Why Wedding Catering Matters More Than Most Couples Expect
When people think about planning a wedding, it's easy to focus on the big-ticket items like the venue, flowers or dress. But one of the most memorable parts of the day is something every single guest experiences together… the food.
Think about your favourite celebrations. Chances are, some of your best memories happened around a table.
Food has a way of bringing people together. It's when conversations begin, old friends reconnect, family members meet for the first time and everyone takes a moment to slow down and simply enjoy being there. For a little while, the formalities pause and the celebration unfolds naturally.
Great wedding catering isn't just about serving a delicious meal. It helps shape the atmosphere of the day. Roaming canapés encourage guests to mingle during cocktail hour, banquet dining creates a warm and communal experience around the table, while plated dining brings a sense of elegance and occasion.
It's also what keeps the celebration going. Weddings are long days, and a well-fed guest is a happy guest. A memorable meal leaves everyone feeling looked after, energised and ready to dance the night away.
At the end of it all, your guests might not remember every flower arrangement or every song that played, but they'll remember how your wedding made them feel. Great food has a wonderful way of becoming part of those memories.
One of the first decisions you’ll make is how you’d like your guests to experience dinner.
There’s no right or wrong choice here. It simply comes down to the kind of atmosphere you want to create on the day and how you’d like your guests to feel around the table.
Choosing Your Dining Style
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If you're choosing between banquet canapé or plated dining, don't think about the food first.
Think about the atmosphere.
Do you picture guests sharing dishes, talking across the table and going back for another helping?
Or do you picture a beautifully paced, restaurant-style dining experience?
Once you know how you want your wedding to feel, the right dining style usually becomes obvious.
Plated dining is a more traditional style of service where each course is individually plated and served directly to guests. It’s a refined and structured dining experience that brings a real sense of occasion to your wedding or event.
There are two styles within plated dining depending on the feel and flow you’d like to create.
Individually Plated is our formal dining option, perfect for weddings, corporate functions and private events. Each guest is served the same set menu entrée, main and dessert, with every dish carefully crafted and beautifully presented for a polished restaurant-style experience.
Alternate Drop is a classic seated option where guests are served a set menu with alternating dishes across each course. This offers variety across the table while maintaining smooth, efficient service and a well-balanced dining experience for every guest.
Plated dining creates a sense of structure and elegance, allowing guests to relax, stay seated and enjoy each course as it is delivered seamlessly to the table.
Why couples love it
Elegant and refined
Formal dining experience
Consistent presentation
Seamless service
What we love
Plated dining creates a real sense of occasion. It allows our chefs to present each dish exactly as intended while creating a polished restaurant-quality dining experience.
Plated or Alternate drop Dining
Banquet Dining
Banquet dining involves generous shared platters placed in the centre of each table for guests to serve themselves. It’s a relaxed, social style of service designed to bring people together over food.
There’s something special about sharing a meal with the people you love most. Passing plates, pouring wine, leaning in for one more bite and one more laugh. Banquet dining brings that spirit to your wedding day, with vibrant, generous share plates served down the centre of the table.
Designed to be relaxed, abundant and full of connection, it encourages conversation and allows guests to enjoy a variety of dishes at their own pace. It turns the meal into part of the celebration, not just a course in the day.
Why couples love it
Relaxed and social atmosphere
Encourages conversation
Guests can choose what they'd like to eat
Creates a generous and abundant dining experience
What we love
Banquet dining naturally brings people together. Guests pass dishes around the table, share food and connect over the meal. It creates a warm and communal atmosphere that suits weddings beautifully.
Buffet Dining
Buffet dining is a self-serve style of catering where a selection of dishes is beautifully presented for guests to move through at their own pace. It offers flexibility, variety and a relaxed flow throughout the event, allowing guests to choose exactly what they feel like eating.
There’s a sense of ease that comes with a well-designed buffet. Guests can stand, chat and wander between the food station and their tables, creating a natural rhythm to the celebration. When done well, it feels abundant and considered rather than rushed or casual.
It works particularly well for larger weddings or events where variety and dietary flexibility are important, and where you want guests to feel comfortable and unstructured in how they dine.
Why couples love it
Offers lots of variety in one sitting
Great for catering to different dietary needs
Flexible and easy-going dining style
Suits larger guest numbers
What we love
Buffet dining creates a generous, welcoming atmosphere. It allows guests to explore the menu at their own pace and always brings a sense of abundance to the room, with plenty of colour, movement and choice throughout the service.
Canapé Dining
Canapé service focuses on bite-sized dishes served by roaming waitstaff throughout the event. It’s a relaxed and social style of dining designed to encourage movement, conversation and connection between guests.
There’s a special kind of magic in a wedding where guests mingle freely, laughter flows and every bite tells a story. Canapés are designed for exactly that. An elegant, informal celebration where food becomes part of the experience rather than a seated course.
Guests can enjoy a variety of small dishes as they move throughout the space, making it a great option for cocktail-style weddings or events where atmosphere and interaction are key.
Why couples love it
Encourages mingling
Relaxed and informal
Great for cocktail-style weddings
Offers plenty of variety
What we love
Canapés create energy. Guests move around, meet new people and enjoy a variety of flavours throughout the celebration.
The Best of Both Worlds
Did you know you can add roaming canapés to the beginning of your wedding catering package?
It's the perfect way to kick off your celebration before banquet or plated dining begins. While you're capturing photos, your guests can relax with a drink in hand, mingle with family and friends, and enjoy a selection of delicious canapés before making their way to dinner.
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When you're choosing your menu, don't try to pick dishes that will please absolutely everyone.
Choose the food that makes you excited. The dishes you can't stop thinking about. The ones that feel like you.
Your caterer will take care of dietary requirements, so your menu should reflect your personalities, not every possible preference.
Take a Look at Real Weddings, What They Chose to Eat, and How Their Day Came Together
canape wedding
DREAMY BEACH WEDDING
Ailie and Al celebrated their beautiful coastal wedding surrounded by 91 of their closest family and friends. The afternoon began with roaming canapés before guests made their way into the reception to enjoy a generous banquet main course, creating a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere from start to finish.
Click the link below to read more about their wedding day and see how it all came together.
banquet wedding
INTIMATE SPRING GARDEN WEDDING IN THE BLUE MOUNTAINS
Stephanie and Jonathan celebrated their wedding at Stephanie's parents' beautiful property near the Blue Mountains, surrounded by their closest family and friends. Guests enjoyed roaming canapés during cocktail hour before gathering together for a generous banquet main course, creating a relaxed and welcoming celebration from beginning to end.
Click the link below to read more about their wedding day and the menu they chose.
plated wedding
A LUSH SEPTEMBER WEDDING
Georgia and Andrew were married surrounded by the tropical charm of Leaves and Fishes. The venue created a beautifully calm, leafy atmosphere that set the tone for their day. They had 52 of their closest friends and family gathered to celebrate, the entire wedding felt relaxed and elevated.
They began the celebration with canapés, followed by an individually plated alternate drop entrée and main course,
You can read more about their wedding with the full menu below.
HOW TO CHOOSE THE RIGHT WEDDING CATERER CHECK LIST
WHAT TO LOOK FOR BEFORE YOU BOOK
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Your caterer has likely catered hundreds of weddings.
If they suggest another canapé, recommend fewer side dishes or advise changing your timeline, it's usually because they've seen what works in real life.
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One of the best places to begin is by reading reviews from previous couples.
Google reviews can provide valuable insight into what it's actually like to work with a catering company. Look beyond comments about the food and pay attention to feedback about communication, organisation, professionalism and service on the day.
A great review often mentions the full experience, not just the meal. Were the staff friendly? Was the planning process easy? Did guests enjoy the service? These details can tell you a lot about what you can expect.
Testimonials on a caterer's website can also be helpful, particularly when they include specific details about the wedding, guest numbers or venue.
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A caterer's website should make it easy to understand what they offer.
Look for clear information about dining styles, menu options, service inclusions and pricing. An up-to-date website often reflects an organised and professional business.
You should be able to quickly find answers to common questions such as:
What dining styles are available?
Do they cater for dietary requirements?
What areas do they service?
What is included in their packages?
How do you request a quote?
A website filled with recent blogs, real weddings and useful information is often a good sign that the business is active and experienced.
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Social media can tell you a lot about a wedding caterer.
Are they regularly posting content from real weddings and events? Do they showcase recent menus, venues and celebrations? Are they sharing photos of the food they are currently serving?
A strong social media presence helps demonstrate consistency and gives you a clearer understanding of the food, service and overall experience they provide.
Look for evidence of real events rather than just stock images or heavily staged content. Seeing a caterer in action can help build confidence that they regularly deliver the type of experience you're looking for.
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Not all catering quotes are created equal.
When comparing catering companies, it's important to understand exactly what is included.
Questions worth asking include:
Are waitstaff included?
Is travel included?
Are serving platters and equipment included?
Are kitchen supplies provided?
Are there additional fees that may be added later?
A good quote should be easy to read, transparent and clearly explain what you're paying for.
Sometimes a lower price can appear attractive initially, but additional costs may quickly add up once staffing, travel or equipment hire are factored in.
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This is one of the most overlooked parts of choosing a wedding caterer.
You'll likely be communicating with your caterer for many months while finalising menus, guest numbers, dietary requirements, timelines and logistics.
Ask yourself:
Are they responsive?
Do they answer questions clearly?
Are they helpful?
Do they seem organised?
A caterer who communicates well early in the process will often continue providing that same level of service throughout your planning journey.
The right team should make things feel easier, not more complicated.
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One of the best ways to assess a caterer is to experience the food firsthand.
A tasting event allows you to experience the flavours, presentation and quality yourself. It's also a fantastic opportunity to meet the team behind the business and get a feel for how they operate.
Food is such an important part of a wedding, and there's real value in knowing exactly what your guests will be enjoying on the day.
Beyond the food itself, tastings can help you assess professionalism, organisation and attention to detail. If a caterer takes pride in their tasting experience, it's often a good indication of how they'll approach your wedding.
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Experience doesn't necessarily mean how long a business has been operating. It's about whether they regularly cater weddings similar to yours.
Ask questions such as:
Have you catered at my venue before?
Do you regularly cater weddings of this size?
Can you cater for dietary requirements?
How many staff will be onsite?
An experienced wedding caterer should be able to confidently answer these questions and offer helpful guidance based on previous events.
Beyond experience, it's also worth understanding who is creating the menus. A chef-led catering team with thoughtfully designed menus and a focus on restaurant-quality food can make a significant difference to your guests' dining experience.
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Every caterer will tell you they serve delicious food and provide excellent service.
The question is whether they can prove it.
Look for:
Google reviews
Client testimonials
Real wedding blogs
Venue features
Social media content
Recent event photos
The more evidence you can find, the easier it becomes to assess whether a caterer is the right fit for your celebration.
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✓ Read their Google reviews
✓ Viewed recent weddings and events
✓ Checked their social media activity
✓ Reviewed their website and service information
✓ Confirmed what is included in the quote
✓ Asked about staffing, travel and equipment
✓ Attended a tasting event if possible
✓ Assessed their communication and responsiveness
✓ Confirmed they can cater for dietary requirements
✓ Made sure they feel like the right fit for your wedding
WHY FOOD IS ONE OF THE MOST IMPORTANT PARTS OF YOUR WEDDING DAY
When couples begin planning their wedding, there are usually a few things that sit right at the top of the priority list. The venue, the photographer, the dress, the music and, of course, the food.
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People rarely leave saying,
"I loved the napkins."
They remember laughing around the table.
Sharing another helping.
Great conversation.
Food has an amazing way of creating those moments.
Your Wedding Catering Journey
One of the questions couples often ask is, "What happens after we've booked our caterer?"
While every catering company has its own planning process, most experienced wedding caterers will guide you through a series of milestones leading up to your wedding day. A clear planning process helps ensure nothing is overlooked and allows you to enjoy the lead up knowing every detail is being taken care of.
Here's what that journey often looks like.
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Don't worry if your wedding is less than 8 months away. Every caterer has different availability, so it's always worth reaching out to see if your date is still available. That said, if you've already secured your venue and have a date in mind, booking your caterer sooner rather than later gives you the best chance of securing your preferred team.
This is where you'll discuss your vision, guest numbers, dining style and receive a tailored proposal based on your celebration.
How we do it at The Wilderness Chef
Our couples work closely with our Client Relations Manager from the very beginning. Together, we'll chat through your wedding plans, answer any questions and help you choose a dining style that suits the atmosphere you want to create.
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Once the foundations of your wedding are in place, it's time for one of the most exciting parts... planning the menu.
This is usually when you'll begin exploring menu options, discussing dietary requirements, considering optional extras and refining the overall dining experience. Depending on your caterer, this may also be when you attend a tasting event.
How we do it at The Wilderness Chef
Our couples receive access to a personalised client portal where they can explore menu options and customise their catering package. We also host regular tasting events, giving couples the opportunity to experience our food before making their final selections.
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As your wedding day approaches, your caterer will begin bringing all of the logistics together.
This is generally when you'll confirm your final guest numbers, dietary requirements, wedding timeline, venue information and any other details needed to prepare for the day. Finalising everything well in advance gives your catering team plenty of time to organise staffing, equipment and logistics.
How we do it at The Wilderness Chef
Around eight weeks before your wedding, we send a detailed confirmation questionnaire covering everything from dietary requirements and final guest numbers to your run sheet, seating plan and venue layout. This gives our team everything we need to prepare for a seamless service.
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With the big day just around the corner, most caterers will check in one final time to make sure everything is covered.
This is the perfect opportunity to confirm timings, discuss any last-minute changes and ensure everyone is working from the most up-to-date information. A final check-in gives both you and your catering team confidence that every detail has been considered before the celebrations begin.
How we do it at The Wilderness Chef
Around two weeks before your wedding, we'll touch base to run through everything one last time. We'll confirm your timeline, guest numbers, dietary requirements and any final details, giving you the opportunity to ask questions or make any last-minute adjustments before the big day.
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After months of planning, it's finally time to relax and enjoy your wedding day.
A professional catering team should work seamlessly behind the scenes, preparing food, coordinating service and managing every aspect of the dining experience so you can focus on celebrating with your family and friends.
How we do it at The Wilderness Chef
From cocktail hour through to the final course, our chefs and front of house team take care of every detail. While you're making memories with your guests, we'll be ensuring your dining experience runs smoothly from beginning to end.
6 Common Wedding Catering Mistakes (and How to Avoid Them)
Great caterers often book out well in advance, particularly during peak wedding season. As a general guide, it's worth reaching out 8 to 12 months before your wedding to give yourself the best chance of securing your preferred date.
If your wedding is sooner than that, don't panic. It's always worth checking with your favourite caterer to see if they're available.
1. Leaving your catering booking too lateOne of the biggest pieces of advice we give couples is to choose the food that excites you most. It is your wedding after all. Don't feel like you need to choose "safe" options in the hope of pleasing every guest.
Your caterer will accommodate dietary requirements separately, allowing you to build a menu that reflects your own tastes and personalities.
2. Choosing a menu to please everyoneOCocktail hour is one of the most social and memorable parts of your wedding day. Guests have often spent the morning getting ready, travelled to your ceremony and are ready for something to eat while enjoying a drink and catching up with family and friends.
Roaming canapés keep the atmosphere relaxed, encourage conversation and help bridge the gap before dinner.
3. Skipping cocktail hour canapésMost caterers are happy to accommodate dietary requirements, but they do need time to plan. As your guest list comes together, start collecting dietary requirements early and communicate them as soon as your caterer requests them. This gives the kitchen plenty of time to prepare thoughtful alternatives and ensures every guest feels looked after.
4. Leaving dietary requirements until the last minuteEven the best food can feel rushed if the timing isn't right. A well-planned run sheet allows your caterer, venue and other suppliers to work together seamlessly, creating a relaxed experience for you and your guests.
Building enough time into cocktail hour, speeches and dinner service makes a huge difference to the overall flow of the day.
5. Underestimating the importance of your timelineYour table layout affects more than just how your reception looks. Leaving enough space between tables allows waitstaff to move comfortably through the room and serve guests efficiently.
If you're planning banquet dining, remember to leave room on each table for generous shared platters alongside your styling. Your caterer, venue and stylist can work together to create a layout that's both beautiful and practical.
6. Not considering table and venue layout
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As a general guide, it's best to book your wedding caterer as early as you can. Around 8 to 12 months before your wedding is ideal, especially if you're getting married during peak wedding season or have your heart set on a particular catering company.
Booking well in advance gives you the best chance of securing your preferred caterer and allows plenty of time to plan your menu, attend tasting events and finalise all the details without feeling rushed.
That said, don't worry if your wedding is less than 8 months away. Every caterer has different availability, so if you've found a team whose food and style you love, it's always worth getting in touch to see if your date is still available. You might be pleasantly surprised.
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It's quite common for guest numbers to change as RSVPs come in, so most experienced caterers are prepared for small increases or decreases in numbers. In most cases, adjusting your final numbers by a few guests either way isn't a problem.
The most important thing is to communicate any changes as early as possible. Caterers begin ordering ingredients, organising staffing and preparing food well before your wedding day, so having accurate numbers helps ensure everything runs smoothly.
Your caterer will let you know when final guest numbers are due, and once they're confirmed, those numbers are generally used for ordering and preparation. If changes happen after this point, it's still worth reaching out as soon as possible. Every caterer is different, and they'll do their best to accommodate where they can.
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Every caterer has their own process, so the answer will depend on their policies and where you are in the planning journey. In most cases, small changes are perfectly fine, particularly in the early stages of planning. As your wedding day gets closer and ingredients are ordered, staffing is confirmed and preparation begins, changes may become more limited.
At The Wilderness Chef, we like to keep the process as flexible and enjoyable as possible. Once you've received your tailored quote and confirmed your booking, you'll gain access to your personalised client portal. From there, you can begin building your menu, explore optional extras such as bar service, late night snacks and additional services, and make selections as your plans come together.
Our Client Relations Manager will guide you through each stage of the planning process and let you know when menu selections, final details and confirmations are due, so you'll always know what to expect and when.
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Based on our experience catering hundreds of weddings, we highly recommend including canapés before dinner.
By the time your ceremony has finished, most guests have spent the morning getting ready, travelling to your venue and celebrating with you. Cocktail hour is the perfect opportunity to offer something delicious while everyone enjoys a drink, catches up with family and friends, and settles into the celebration. Roaming canapés naturally encourage conversation and create a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere before dinner begins.
If you're planning on serving alcohol during cocktail hour, it's also worth checking with your venue to see if food is required to be served alongside drinks. Some venues and liquor licence conditions require substantial food to be available while alcohol is being served.
For many couples, canapés become one of the highlights of the day. They help set the tone for the celebration and create a relaxed, social atmosphere before everyone comes together for dinner.
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While both styles involve guests serving themselves, they're quite different experiences.
Banquet dining features generous share platters placed in the centre of each table, allowing guests to pass dishes around and serve themselves without leaving their seats. It creates a relaxed, social atmosphere and encourages guests to connect over the meal.
Buffet dining involves guests leaving their tables and moving through a buffet station to select their meal before returning to their seats. It's a practical option for many events and offers guests the opportunity to choose exactly what they'd like to eat.
If you're deciding between banquet, buffet or plated dining, we've put together a more comprehensive comparison earlier in this guide, covering how each style works, who it suits best and the atmosphere it creates.
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Yes. Most experienced wedding caterers can accommodate a wide range of dietary requirements, including vegetarian, vegan, gluten-free, coeliac and many common allergies.
During the planning process, your caterer will usually ask you to provide a list of guests with dietary requirements. This is often done alongside your final guest list and seating plan, allowing each dietary guest to be identified and served the correct meal on the day.
Providing this information in advance gives your caterer time to thoughtfully prepare suitable alternatives, ensuring every guest feels just as considered and cared for as everyone else.
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The number of waitstaff required will depend on your guest numbers, venue and chosen dining style. For example, a cocktail-style event with roaming canapés requires a different level of service to a seated banquet or individually plated meal.
An experienced caterer will carefully calculate the number of chefs and front of house staff needed to ensure food is served efficiently, tables are cleared promptly and your guests are well looked after throughout the event.
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An experienced catering team will have already discussed a wet weather plan with you well in advance. Everything will be carefully prepared behind the scenes to ensure service continues smoothly, whether your celebration moves indoors or under cover, so the day feels seamless no matter the conditions.
Frequently Asked Questions
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One of the biggest mistakes we see isn't the menu.
It's rushing the meal.
Give yourselves time to enjoy each course, have conversations and soak in the atmosphere.
You'll only have this dinner once.
WEDDING DAY RUN SHEET / TIMELINE
This is a general wedding run sheet and timeline that can be used as a guide when planning your day. Every wedding is unique, so timings and flow may vary depending on your ceremony time, location, and style of celebration. It’s designed to give you a clear overview of how a typical wedding day unfolds from start to finish.
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Hair and makeup for those getting ready on the day
Separate preparation for each side of the wedding party
Breakfast, coffee, and a relaxed start to the day
Photographer captures detail shots (dress, rings, stationery, venue details)
Vendors arrive for setup where required
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Hair and makeup finishes
Getting ready and dressing is completed
Optional first look or private moment between the couple
Photographer captures pre-ceremony portraits
Final setup at ceremony and reception spaces
Transport and timing confirmed with vendors
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Guests arrive and are seated
Pre-ceremony music begins
Key participants take positions for the ceremony
Final checks with celebrant or officiant and coordinator
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Processional
Ceremony proceedings (readings, vows, rituals)
Ring exchange
Signing of legal documents
Recessional and exit
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Congratulations and exit
Family and group photos
Couple portraits
Guests enjoy drinks and canapés
Transition to reception space or venue reset
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Guests arrive or are welcomed into reception
Entrance announcements
Welcome speech or MC introduction
Drinks service continues
Guests settle into reception flow
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Meal service
Speeches and formalities
Cake cutting
Music and atmosphere build throughout dinner
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First dance
Dance floor opens
Live music or DJ continues
Late-night food (if included)
Socialising and celebration
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Final songs and farewell moments
Guest departures and transport
Vendor pack down begins
Venue clean-up and load-out
About This Guide
This guide was written by Executive Chef Cooper Thomas, owner of The Wilderness Chef, a multi award-winning catering company specialising in weddings and events across the Hunter Valley, Newcastle, Central Coast and beyond.
Over the past 10 years, Cooper and his team have catered over a thousand weddings and events, helping couples create memorable dining experiences centred around exceptional food and genuine hospitality. The Wilderness Chef has earned more than 250 five-star Google reviews through a commitment to thoughtful planning, chef-created seasonal menus and seamless service.
Rather than repeating general wedding advice found online, this guide is based on real experience gained from catering hundreds of weddings of every size and style. Our goal is simple: to help you make informed decisions, avoid common mistakes and create a wedding dining experience that both you and your guests will remember for all the right reasons.
Why trust this guide?
Written by an Executive Chef with 10+ years of wedding catering experience
Based on hundreds of real weddings
Created by a multi award-winning catering company
Backed by 250+ five-star Google reviews
Updated regularly to reflect current wedding trends and planning advice